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by Avon
Mon Jun 17, 2019 5:22 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Here's a hypothetical
Replies: 163
Views: 2547334

Re: Here's a hypothetical

The house system in my time was an absolute lottery - but also a very dangerous one. This is I think one of the main proof points that shows that Poulton et al just weren't in control: Maine was probably the best example at the time of a stern junior house experience (Grimshaw) that turned into a se...
by Avon
Sun Jun 16, 2019 9:51 am
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Sheila and Peter Higgins - character references for Gary Dobbie
Replies: 58
Views: 25094

Re: Sheila and Peter Higgins - character references for Gary Dobbie

Mid A 15 wrote: Sun Jun 16, 2019 9:46 amThe disgusting female Chaplain that ignored that poor girl is even worse.
Is it now established who this is?
by Avon
Thu Jun 13, 2019 11:19 am
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Dobbie sentencing hearing
Replies: 93
Views: 47272

Re: Dobbie sentencing hearing

That award is shocking. A much higher sentence is indicated. At least the media have caught up with the chaplaincy issue. So has this mentalist: https://goodnessandharmony.wordpress.com/ I think that the CofE angle to the case is interesting. In my opinion there should also be an achnowledgement by ...
by Avon
Wed Jun 12, 2019 8:13 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Dobbie sentencing hearing
Replies: 93
Views: 47272

Re: Dobbie sentencing hearing

Otter wrote: Wed Jun 12, 2019 7:34 pm Now that I am no longer employed by the Probation Service I can say that sex offenders will not stop until they are in prison, dead or a vegetable.
Well, that’s giving Dobbie some options then.
by Avon
Wed Jun 12, 2019 6:13 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Dobbie sentencing hearing
Replies: 93
Views: 47272

Re: Dobbie sentencing hearing

I wonder if the press will continue to ‘forget’ that he did this as ‘Father’ Gary Dobbie?
by Avon
Sat May 11, 2019 9:59 pm
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: Anyone else who hated being at CH ?
Replies: 97
Views: 60647

Re: Anyone else who hated being at CH ?

rockfreak wrote: Sat May 11, 2019 9:39 pm Yes, at my age time telescopes.
:D
by Avon
Sat May 11, 2019 9:35 pm
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: Anyone else who hated being at CH ?
Replies: 97
Views: 60647

Re: Re:

To this very day, I am consumed by a passionate indifference. Looking at your viewing profile Cleopatra I think we may have much in common (I too had a cat which I loved dearly). Had you read, as opposed to ‘looked at’ Cleopatra’s profile, you’d have noticed that she last visited the site twelve ye...
by Avon
Wed May 08, 2019 7:22 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Trial of Gary William Dobbie
Replies: 328
Views: 111677

Re: Trial of Gary William Dobbie

jtaylor wrote: Sun May 05, 2019 1:34 pm (Edit:- Just realised I’m still “friends” with him and a number of other CH staff from my time. I plan to leave that as-is I think - see if anyone takes over his account, given there’s still some out there who unbelievably think he’s innocent!)
I see Bob Sillett is still friends with him.
by Avon
Tue May 07, 2019 2:57 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Dates of birth of convicted abusers
Replies: 45
Views: 15121

Re: Dates of birth of convicted abusers

add .... who had the authority and/or power and/or connections to take strong and effective action I think this is sort of the point. In my time, there were Governors in several flavours, same for Almoners. There was an HM and a Senior Management Team. Then there were sundry Corporations who seemed...
by Avon
Sun May 05, 2019 11:57 am
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Poulton, Cairncross, Sillett
Replies: 61
Views: 40650

Re: Poulton, Cairncross, Sillett

DazedandConfused wrote: Sun May 05, 2019 9:09 am Edited with a correction- I believe the Chaplain May have retired after ill health.
Sheila Banyard, who used to compete with Elizabeth Cairncross in the warmth-and-empathy-in-pastoral-care stakes, is still ‘something’ in the Church Of England franchise.
by Avon
Sun May 05, 2019 8:07 am
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: Do You Tell People That You Went To Public School?
Replies: 15
Views: 6842

Re: Do You Tell People That You Went To Public School?

I honestly can’t remember the last time I was asked the question; it’s a bit non-u, surely? Should it arise again, I think I’ll say that I was at the Royal Mathematical School. It sounds like a splendid place; no predatory priests, no rapist history teachers, no eloping musicians, no kinky parties, ...
by Avon
Sun May 05, 2019 7:59 am
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Poulton, Cairncross, Sillett
Replies: 61
Views: 40650

Re: Poulton, Cairncross, Sillett

There should be an independent enquiry. The current HM has chosen to distance the current CH brand from the old one. But according to the Charge I’m carrying the ‘good name of Christ’s Hospital’. For my era there isn’t one. This whole scandal has to be unpicked; the failures in governance and superv...
by Avon
Sat May 04, 2019 4:52 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Trial of Gary William Dobbie
Replies: 328
Views: 111677

Re: Trial of Gary William Dobbie

There was much coverage of Poulton et al at the previous trials. There probably should be now. It's patently clear that the school of today disowns that of yesteryear: From the testimony of this victim and others, it is clear that abuse at Christ Hospitalwas enabled not only by the perpetrators who...
by Avon
Wed May 01, 2019 12:16 pm
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: Anyone else who hated being at CH ?
Replies: 97
Views: 60647

Re: Anyone else who hated being at CH ?

Are you just laying on the stereotypes and trying to get rise out of people, and in effect acting like a mischievous public schoolboy...? :wink: We know it can't be sarcasm, it doesn't do sarcasm: ...sarcasm is one of the stocks in trade people often pick up at boarding school. For many it's a subs...
by Avon
Tue Apr 30, 2019 10:13 pm
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: Anyone else who hated being at CH ?
Replies: 97
Views: 60647

Re: Anyone else who hated being at CH ?

So here’s my problem: the massive discordance between this post... I'm interested in Avon's attitude because, after all this time, he and I seem to me to be coming from exactly the same place! When I mentioned our "stardust" I was using it in a sardonic way. We don't sprinkle our supposed ...