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- Mon Jun 17, 2019 5:22 pm
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Here's a hypothetical
- Replies: 163
- Views: 2547334
Re: Here's a hypothetical
The house system in my time was an absolute lottery - but also a very dangerous one. This is I think one of the main proof points that shows that Poulton et al just weren't in control: Maine was probably the best example at the time of a stern junior house experience (Grimshaw) that turned into a se...
- Sun Jun 16, 2019 9:51 am
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Sheila and Peter Higgins - character references for Gary Dobbie
- Replies: 58
- Views: 25094
- Thu Jun 13, 2019 11:19 am
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Dobbie sentencing hearing
- Replies: 93
- Views: 47272
Re: Dobbie sentencing hearing
That award is shocking. A much higher sentence is indicated. At least the media have caught up with the chaplaincy issue. So has this mentalist: https://goodnessandharmony.wordpress.com/ I think that the CofE angle to the case is interesting. In my opinion there should also be an achnowledgement by ...
- Wed Jun 12, 2019 8:13 pm
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Dobbie sentencing hearing
- Replies: 93
- Views: 47272
- Wed Jun 12, 2019 6:13 pm
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Dobbie sentencing hearing
- Replies: 93
- Views: 47272
Re: Dobbie sentencing hearing
I wonder if the press will continue to ‘forget’ that he did this as ‘Father’ Gary Dobbie?
- Sat May 11, 2019 9:59 pm
- Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
- Topic: Anyone else who hated being at CH ?
- Replies: 97
- Views: 60647
- Sat May 11, 2019 9:35 pm
- Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
- Topic: Anyone else who hated being at CH ?
- Replies: 97
- Views: 60647
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To this very day, I am consumed by a passionate indifference. Looking at your viewing profile Cleopatra I think we may have much in common (I too had a cat which I loved dearly). Had you read, as opposed to ‘looked at’ Cleopatra’s profile, you’d have noticed that she last visited the site twelve ye...
- Wed May 08, 2019 7:22 pm
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Trial of Gary William Dobbie
- Replies: 328
- Views: 111677
Re: Trial of Gary William Dobbie
I see Bob Sillett is still friends with him.
- Tue May 07, 2019 2:57 pm
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Dates of birth of convicted abusers
- Replies: 45
- Views: 15121
Re: Dates of birth of convicted abusers
add .... who had the authority and/or power and/or connections to take strong and effective action I think this is sort of the point. In my time, there were Governors in several flavours, same for Almoners. There was an HM and a Senior Management Team. Then there were sundry Corporations who seemed...
- Sun May 05, 2019 11:57 am
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Poulton, Cairncross, Sillett
- Replies: 61
- Views: 40650
Re: Poulton, Cairncross, Sillett
Sheila Banyard, who used to compete with Elizabeth Cairncross in the warmth-and-empathy-in-pastoral-care stakes, is still ‘something’ in the Church Of England franchise.DazedandConfused wrote: ↑Sun May 05, 2019 9:09 am Edited with a correction- I believe the Chaplain May have retired after ill health.
- Sun May 05, 2019 8:07 am
- Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
- Topic: Do You Tell People That You Went To Public School?
- Replies: 15
- Views: 6842
Re: Do You Tell People That You Went To Public School?
I honestly can’t remember the last time I was asked the question; it’s a bit non-u, surely? Should it arise again, I think I’ll say that I was at the Royal Mathematical School. It sounds like a splendid place; no predatory priests, no rapist history teachers, no eloping musicians, no kinky parties, ...
- Sun May 05, 2019 7:59 am
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Poulton, Cairncross, Sillett
- Replies: 61
- Views: 40650
Re: Poulton, Cairncross, Sillett
There should be an independent enquiry. The current HM has chosen to distance the current CH brand from the old one. But according to the Charge I’m carrying the ‘good name of Christ’s Hospital’. For my era there isn’t one. This whole scandal has to be unpicked; the failures in governance and superv...
- Sat May 04, 2019 4:52 pm
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Trial of Gary William Dobbie
- Replies: 328
- Views: 111677
Re: Trial of Gary William Dobbie
There was much coverage of Poulton et al at the previous trials. There probably should be now. It's patently clear that the school of today disowns that of yesteryear: From the testimony of this victim and others, it is clear that abuse at Christ Hospitalwas enabled not only by the perpetrators who...
- Wed May 01, 2019 12:16 pm
- Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
- Topic: Anyone else who hated being at CH ?
- Replies: 97
- Views: 60647
Re: Anyone else who hated being at CH ?
Are you just laying on the stereotypes and trying to get rise out of people, and in effect acting like a mischievous public schoolboy...? :wink: We know it can't be sarcasm, it doesn't do sarcasm: ...sarcasm is one of the stocks in trade people often pick up at boarding school. For many it's a subs...
- Tue Apr 30, 2019 10:13 pm
- Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
- Topic: Anyone else who hated being at CH ?
- Replies: 97
- Views: 60647
Re: Anyone else who hated being at CH ?
So here’s my problem: the massive discordance between this post... I'm interested in Avon's attitude because, after all this time, he and I seem to me to be coming from exactly the same place! When I mentioned our "stardust" I was using it in a sardonic way. We don't sprinkle our supposed ...