Thank goodness - although I expect it has been driven underground as all these things are - if a girl cries she is setupon by what seems to be a hoarde of maurauding dogs - the culture of boarding schools as well as day schools is that "x" is the leader and no one forget it! and anyone else gets bitched, thumped and generally bullied.. It still happends - even at the 6th Form college my daughter now attends - she can't wait to leave, as she finds the to and fro of bully to bullied most confusing and depressing - I can't say I blame her!Great Plum wrote: I think you will be pleased to know that physical bullying with the girls at Ch is now much reduced from the times you have mentioned
If bullying were to be totally ripped out and got rid of - what would replace it? Nature abhors a vaccum, we got rid of smallpox - and we got HIV and AIDS - what happens when they find a cure for the common cold? AT least we know that bullying exsists, and most people can see where it is happeneing and to whom - (and oftem by who) and yes a quiet talk to each doesn't necesarily mean it will go away - but then punnishment only makes it worse - so how do we as a group as well as society resolve bullying?