efsis wrote:I would have thought that at the age of seventeen you knew what you were doing?
No offense - but that is the rationale most abusers use. I may have been 17 - which is considerably wiser than, say, 14 - but - the fact remains, that I was a minor and this was a TEACHER, in a position of trust, and the balance of power was hardly level. Most 17 year-olds THINK they know what they are doing - yet, in the climate of emotional starvation, low self esteem and isolation at CH, it was easy to mistake sexual predation and abuse for something gentler and 'more sophisticated'. He was in his late 30s. Your statement, Efsis, is tantamount to saying "well, she was wearing a short skirt - she asked for it".