Would Your Schoolmates Still Recognise You?
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- Spoonbill
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Would Your Schoolmates Still Recognise You?
I was very struck by Dick Ruck's comments on the Who Else Has Never Been Back to CH? thread, regarding his recent Horsham sighting of the deservedly famous Alan Baber (who, with the equally celebrated Steve Blohm, earned LHA its enduring 1970s image).
Dick said how strange it was to see someone one hadn't laid eyes on for 25 years; he also said he didn't say hello to AB because he hadn't really known him at school. It occurs to me that if I saw someone who looked a lot like someone I'd been at school with, I'd automatically assume it wasn't them. I mean, the initial flash of recognition would relate to how the person used to look a quarter of a century ago - and heaven knows, there's no rock-solid reason to assume they'd look the same today. (Whenever I see that winker The Revd. Peter Owen-Jones on TV, striding around in his Tom-Baker-as-Doctor-Who get-up, I automatically think of Iain Harris [Ba.B./Col.A] because the resemblance is very strong.....But is it Iain Harris? Probably not....)
My point is, do we reckon we'd still be recognisable to our old schoolmates today? Do you still look like your old self? Has anyone ever instantly recognised you on a tube train or at Old Blues' Day? Has anyone ever said 'God you're a fat git these days, I'd never have known you!' ?
I'm a classic example, me. Used to be disturbingly skinny but now I'm a blimp. Hands up who recognises me?
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v629/ ... ltoday.jpg
C'mon, let's have a show of photos. Show us the full horror of how you've changed or not.
Dick said how strange it was to see someone one hadn't laid eyes on for 25 years; he also said he didn't say hello to AB because he hadn't really known him at school. It occurs to me that if I saw someone who looked a lot like someone I'd been at school with, I'd automatically assume it wasn't them. I mean, the initial flash of recognition would relate to how the person used to look a quarter of a century ago - and heaven knows, there's no rock-solid reason to assume they'd look the same today. (Whenever I see that winker The Revd. Peter Owen-Jones on TV, striding around in his Tom-Baker-as-Doctor-Who get-up, I automatically think of Iain Harris [Ba.B./Col.A] because the resemblance is very strong.....But is it Iain Harris? Probably not....)
My point is, do we reckon we'd still be recognisable to our old schoolmates today? Do you still look like your old self? Has anyone ever instantly recognised you on a tube train or at Old Blues' Day? Has anyone ever said 'God you're a fat git these days, I'd never have known you!' ?
I'm a classic example, me. Used to be disturbingly skinny but now I'm a blimp. Hands up who recognises me?
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v629/ ... ltoday.jpg
C'mon, let's have a show of photos. Show us the full horror of how you've changed or not.
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Well, I did go to a Newgate Club drinking session about 3 years ago, and I was recognised by a few people I hadn't seen for years and years (I recognised most of them, too).
I am, of course, larger than I was in, say, 1978, but still recognisable, I think.
I don't have any photos in digital form which show how I look today, but maybe I'll see what I can do.
By the way, there have been several sightings of A.B., so I'm quite sure.
Or, possibly, there is a hitherto unknown doppelganger wandering about the place.
You're right, though - seeing someone 'out of context' after a long time can lead to mistakes.
I am, of course, larger than I was in, say, 1978, but still recognisable, I think.
I don't have any photos in digital form which show how I look today, but maybe I'll see what I can do.
By the way, there have been several sightings of A.B., so I'm quite sure.
Or, possibly, there is a hitherto unknown doppelganger wandering about the place.
You're right, though - seeing someone 'out of context' after a long time can lead to mistakes.
Ba.A / Mid. B 1972 - 1978
Thee's got'n where thee cassn't back'n, hassn't?
Thee's got'n where thee cassn't back'n, hassn't?
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35 years on
I have my piccy as my icon. Perhaps Euterpe could let me know.
I don't think I have changed much, and certanly when I met someone from FRU at Liverpool Street (remember that girls?) we had no trouble recognising each other.
There is a better pic of me on FRU.
I don't think I have changed much, and certanly when I met someone from FRU at Liverpool Street (remember that girls?) we had no trouble recognising each other.
There is a better pic of me on FRU.
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recognition
Spoonbill and I have been very rude to each other in another section of the forum. I don't think we will be getting together.
Thinking about it, I may know him. I have met a couple of OBs at work.
Have just checked his profile. One who I know is Andrew, and the other I met 10 years ago and cannot remember his name. But he is certainly older than 3.
Thinking about it, I may know him. I have met a couple of OBs at work.
Have just checked his profile. One who I know is Andrew, and the other I met 10 years ago and cannot remember his name. But he is certainly older than 3.
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Recognition
Wot no plastic surgery yet?Great Plum wrote:Well people should still recognise me - I only left in 1999...
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Re: 35 years on
Actually, not sure I would have recognised you - you look an awful lot better now that in pinafore days ( you used to look a lot geekier - midwifery obviously agrees with you ...) ! Haven't seen the FRU pic - should I be brave/ brainless & put one of mine on here ?englishangel wrote:I have my piccy as my icon. Perhaps Euterpe could let me know.
There is a better pic of me on FRU.
Perhaps not - and as to the thread subject : have been recognised by bods I hadn't seen for about 30 years, so...
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Re: 35 years on
I shold think everyone looks better than in pinafore days, it would be difficult not to.Euterpe13 wrote:Actually, not sure I would have recognised you - you look an awful lot better now that in pinafore days ( you used to look a lot geekier - midwifery obviously agrees with you ...) ! Haven't seen the FRU pic - should I be brave/ brainless & put one of mine on here ?englishangel wrote:I have my piccy as my icon. Perhaps Euterpe could let me know.
There is a better pic of me on FRU.
Perhaps not - and as to the thread subject : have been recognised by bods I hadn't seen for about 30 years, so...
For those who don't know, at Hertford we wore blue cotton pinafores over our regular uniform for meals, cleaning etc. until year 11 (GE I think). This gave rise to the rumour in Hertford that CH was a place for unmarried mothers. In Year 11 we made ourselves a black apron which we were 'awarded sometime suring that year, then sometime during Sixth form the black apron was changed to a green one. (Monitress, ? equivalent to a button Grecian, I am guessing here)
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The only reason Richard R. was recognised at the Newgate boooze-up was because he was in his usual position.sport! wrote:I can confirm that Richard still looks like Richard! Saw him and many others at the 2004 OBs Day and I thought the majority were instantly recognisable.
But, Spoonbill, I do remember Iain Harris, but I have to admit I don't recognise you!
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Crikey Spoonbill that's a corker of a shot of you!
Were you as pretty as that when at school?
Did you have those girls at Highsham Wh*reschool chasing after you?
Interesting you mention Ian Harris
In my diary written aged 11 in Barnes B (about 1969-70), he had a terrific fight which no-one emerged victorious from but he was bleeding dramatically.
I have (somewhere in my cellar) loads of CH photos taken between 1969-1977 but do not know how to post them
I could scan them onto the computer but no idea how to put 'em on this site.
Were you as pretty as that when at school?
Did you have those girls at Highsham Wh*reschool chasing after you?
Interesting you mention Ian Harris
In my diary written aged 11 in Barnes B (about 1969-70), he had a terrific fight which no-one emerged victorious from but he was bleeding dramatically.
I have (somewhere in my cellar) loads of CH photos taken between 1969-1977 but do not know how to post them
I could scan them onto the computer but no idea how to put 'em on this site.
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