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- Sun Jun 01, 2025 12:19 am
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Lost Voices Heard / 30th May 2025
- Replies: 3
- Views: 3858
Re: Lost Voices Heard / 30th May 2025
Thank you Chris for arranging this. For anyone interested I made a short video on the day which follows on from the CH video I made a few years ago "Revisiting my traumatic past" https://youtu.be/-eX-ztGHapI?si=MBrqtMtNYOKr7zIi
- Sat Jun 01, 2024 7:04 pm
- Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
- Topic: Puke Fight!
- Replies: 62
- Views: 544610
Re: Puke Fight!
AMP- you were punched in the face repeatedly until the House Captain broke his wrist??? What??? Sounds like Nazi Germany or a Gulag rather than a school in Sussex in the 90s! Your face must have been a bl**dy mess by the time he broke his wrist. What did matron, other masters, less sadistic ...
- Wed May 01, 2024 11:40 am
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Self Help Group for Survivors of Abuse at CH
- Replies: 9
- Views: 23079
Re: Self Help Group for Survivors of Abuse at CH
Hi, we do hope we can run more of these groups. Please contact me on the email address at the bottom of my website.
https://forsurvivors.co.uk/ob-survivors/
https://forsurvivors.co.uk/ob-survivors/
- Thu Feb 15, 2024 8:35 pm
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Self Help Group for Survivors of Abuse at CH
- Replies: 9
- Views: 23079
Re: Self Help Group for Survivors of Abuse at CH
I feel so excited and privileged that we are about to start this. So many of us suffered alone for years. I hope this next group is a healing experience for all.
- Mon Jan 08, 2024 2:32 pm
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Self Help Group for Survivors of Abuse at CH
- Replies: 9
- Views: 23079
Self Help Group for Survivors of Abuse at CH
Hi and Happy New Year,
I’m really pleased to announce that we are planning a 2nd self help group (SHG) to start in February. The first SHG went really well, beyond expectations, and there are some people who’d like to repeat the group, and others who couldn’t join the first time, but would like to ...
I’m really pleased to announce that we are planning a 2nd self help group (SHG) to start in February. The first SHG went really well, beyond expectations, and there are some people who’d like to repeat the group, and others who couldn’t join the first time, but would like to ...
- Wed Feb 22, 2023 8:31 pm
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Statement of Acknowledgement from CH
- Replies: 16
- Views: 60370
Re: Statement of Acknowledgement from CH
A big thanks to you Rob for all your perseverance in this.
- Fri Oct 07, 2022 1:35 pm
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: My experience of visiting CH after the abuse
- Replies: 4
- Views: 10064
My experience of visiting CH after the abuse
I visited CH over the summer to see if it would trigger my PTSD again, and I made a video of my experience in case it's of benefit to anyone else who has been avoiding visiting. Trigger warning, I do mention some of the abuse, but I mainly talk about the easier to digest stuff. https://youtu.be ...
- Fri Jan 28, 2022 2:32 pm
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Elizabeth Cairncross
- Replies: 129
- Views: 257696
Re: Elizabeth Cairncross
Thanks Otter
- Mon Jan 24, 2022 10:17 pm
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Elizabeth Cairncross
- Replies: 129
- Views: 257696
Re: Elizabeth Cairncross
Hi, I just found this thread after googling Cairncross today after I saw she liked 8 of my tweets today! I have a few thoughts:
1) At CH in the 80's and 90's, I experienced sexual, physical and psychological abuse, that resulted in PTSD.
2) I also, like some others, often went without food, and ...
1) At CH in the 80's and 90's, I experienced sexual, physical and psychological abuse, that resulted in PTSD.
2) I also, like some others, often went without food, and ...
- Wed May 12, 2021 5:02 pm
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Independent expert mediator
- Replies: 10
- Views: 15784
Re: Independent expert mediator
Thanks Chris for this. I have spoken with Lia, and thought she did a very good job of listening. I'd like to pass on the message to other Old Blues, is there a website link we can refer them to?
- Mon Sep 29, 2014 12:38 am
- Forum: Stories, Reminiscing & Teacher/Pupil Memories
- Topic: Corporal Punishment......
- Replies: 213
- Views: 154800
Re: Corporal Punishment......
In Peele B between 1987-89 (and possibly 90), crackings (as I seem to remember calling them) were common. I remember there being 3 types:
1) The staff on duty (although I only remember Flemming doing it) would administer them in the dormitory in front of the the other boys. Mr. Flemming would ask ...
1) The staff on duty (although I only remember Flemming doing it) would administer them in the dormitory in front of the the other boys. Mr. Flemming would ask ...
- Sun Sep 28, 2014 7:56 pm
- Forum: Stories, Reminiscing & Teacher/Pupil Memories
- Topic: Corporal Punishment......
- Replies: 213
- Views: 154800
Re: Corporal Punishment......
In Peele B between 1987-89 (and possibly 90), crackings (as I seem to remember calling them) were common. I remember there being 3 types:
1) The staff on duty (although I only remember Flemming doing it) would administer them in the dormitory in front of the the other boys. Mr. Flemming would ask ...
1) The staff on duty (although I only remember Flemming doing it) would administer them in the dormitory in front of the the other boys. Mr. Flemming would ask ...
- Sun Sep 28, 2014 5:51 pm
- Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
- Topic: Beating Retreat - 1992
- Replies: 4
- Views: 4367
Re: Beating Retreat - 1992
HI, did anyone manage to do this?
If not, I have facilities to do this, and would also love to be able to get a copy (I think I was a drummer that year in the retreat).
If not, I have facilities to do this, and would also love to be able to get a copy (I think I was a drummer that year in the retreat).
- Sun Sep 28, 2014 4:29 pm
- Forum: Stories, Reminiscing & Teacher/Pupil Memories
- Topic: The Housey Rap
- Replies: 39
- Views: 30169
Re: The Housey Rap
Hah, amusingly I was just listening to this, and I wondered whether copies had ever leaked online. :) Apparently not reliably, so here's a link...
http://www.mediafire.com/?sharekey=b7d4c5b2132c92c06e7203eb87368129e04e75f6e8ebb871
If anyone cares, the information on Grecians2001 is pretty ...
http://www.mediafire.com/?sharekey=b7d4c5b2132c92c06e7203eb87368129e04e75f6e8ebb871
If anyone cares, the information on Grecians2001 is pretty ...
- Sun Sep 28, 2014 4:18 pm
- Forum: Stories, Reminiscing & Teacher/Pupil Memories
- Topic: Corporal Punishment......
- Replies: 213
- Views: 154800
Re: Corporal Punishment......
In Peele B between 1987-89 (and possibly 90), crackings (as I seem to remember calling them) were common. I remember there being 3 types:
1) The staff on duty (although I only remember Flemming doing it) would administer them in the dormitory in front of the the other boys. Mr. Flemming would ask ...
1) The staff on duty (although I only remember Flemming doing it) would administer them in the dormitory in front of the the other boys. Mr. Flemming would ask ...