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by scrub
Sat Jul 27, 2019 3:04 pm
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: Former teacher, Tom Snook
Replies: 6
Views: 417

Re: Former teacher, Tom Snook

I remember Tom Snook. If my memory serves, he was one of those teachers you either really liked or were a little scared of. Or both. Good teacher, minimal tolerance for people messing about or wasting his time. I remember his as a very straightforward, no BS, type of guy. As long as you tried, even ...
by scrub
Thu Jul 25, 2019 2:12 pm
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: What is the impact of a CH education?
Replies: 31
Views: 1819

Re: What is the impact of a CH education?

I don't get any of these emails. I remember that someone from the OB office (or whatever it was called) got in touch with me just after I left. I told them I was leaving the country and wasn't interested in the place. They didn't push it. They haven't sent any of this stuff to my sister either, alth...
by scrub
Thu Jun 27, 2019 3:23 pm
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: Is private education overrated?
Replies: 38
Views: 1896

Re: Is private education overrated?

Is private education overrated? If we look around at the majority of people in political parties, big businesses, financial entities, journalism, etc, there is a certain sameness to their education path that suggests that, if your goal for your child is to see them in one of these places, then priv...
by scrub
Thu Jun 20, 2019 11:40 am
Forum: Historical Abuse and related discussions
Topic: Here's a hypothetical
Replies: 150
Views: 6854

Re: Alcohol

Ergo; don't assume the word alcohol was directly related to grooming at CH. Any arguments on either side? Agree with Marty in that context is key when talking about alcohol and CH. There's a notable difference between the dispensing of alcohol by Dobbie and the "one and done" drinks with a housemas...
by scrub
Sun Jun 16, 2019 1:32 pm
Forum: Historical Abuse and related discussions
Topic: Sheila and Peter Higgins - character references for Gary Dobbie
Replies: 58
Views: 3928

Re: Sheila and Peter Higgins - character references for Gary Dobbie

I may be naive, but I think there’s much more general awareness on the part of the kids themselves over what’s right, wrong, normal and inappropriate - along with a much stronger ethos to trust the child by default. I'm not sure that kids have a noticeably better understanding of right and wrong th...
by scrub
Sat Jun 15, 2019 5:21 pm
Forum: Historical Abuse and related discussions
Topic: Here's a hypothetical
Replies: 150
Views: 6854

Re: Here's a hypothetical

McCall's name keeps coming up. He appears to have either died or gone abroad. One can't help thinking he will be happy to be as elusive as Lord Lucan. True. His name has cropped up, and he did leave abruptly. But i'd prefer to err on the side of caution if noone has come forward to press charges fo...
by scrub
Fri Jun 14, 2019 9:46 pm
Forum: Historical Abuse and related discussions
Topic: Dobbie sentencing hearing
Replies: 93
Views: 4546

Re: Dobbie sentencing hearing

richardb wrote:
Fri Jun 14, 2019 9:22 pm
It has left many of us with feeling of helplessness and betrayal.
And anger. That's there too.
by scrub
Fri Jun 14, 2019 9:18 pm
Forum: Historical Abuse and related discussions
Topic: Dobbie sentencing hearing
Replies: 93
Views: 4546

Re: Dobbie sentencing hearing

I think it is interesting but sad that the number of posters on this site has diminished, apparently because of the revelations. Activity on any small, specialised forum tends to ebb and flow in normal circumstances. I can understand why some would stay away while others (myself included) have sign...
by scrub
Fri Jun 14, 2019 11:04 am
Forum: Historical Abuse and related discussions
Topic: Dobbie sentencing hearing
Replies: 93
Views: 4546

Re: Dobbie sentencing hearing

Agree with everything you've said, and this in particular; At any time in the intervening years the teacher could have spoken out and prevented other children being harmed,. he didn't,. gets to the heart of why a lot of people who were at the school at the time feel the way they do about the place n...
by scrub
Thu Jun 13, 2019 6:01 pm
Forum: Historical Abuse and related discussions
Topic: Dobbie sentencing hearing
Replies: 93
Views: 4546

Re: Dobbie sentencing hearing

Thanks for that, like others I was trying to work out whether that was as bad as it sounded. Given the culture at the school 25+ years ago, the member of staff did what he thought was best for the pupil at the time. Regardless of anyone's feelings towards the teacher in question, that's a fairly dam...
by scrub
Mon May 20, 2019 2:25 pm
Forum: Historical Abuse and related discussions
Topic: Sheila and Peter Higgins - character references for Gary Dobbie
Replies: 58
Views: 3928

Re: Sheila and Peter Higgins - character references for Gary Dobbie

Seems to me that it might be appropriate to inform the present Bishop of Chichester that two of his staff were staff at CH at a "difficult" time and gave character references in this trial - just in case he did not know. I've a feeling the Bishop is probably a little distracted at the moment what w...
by scrub
Wed May 15, 2019 1:06 pm
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: What Doesn't Happen At CH These Days?
Replies: 72
Views: 9878

Re: What Doesn't Happen At CH These Days?

Given the fact that the place is now co-ed, I imagine that sexual experimentation and recreation now (mostly) take different forms. And I suppose it needn't be so clandestine. Unless things have changed radically since I was there, it's probably as clandestine as ever. Getting caught in (or after) ...
by scrub
Sun May 12, 2019 4:26 pm
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: Anyone else who hated being at CH ?
Replies: 97
Views: 7308

Re: Anyone else who hated being at CH ?

I'd like to know if it was so patently obvious what was happening during your time at Horsham. I think this was covered in one of the other threads and the answer was "overall, it depended on how clued-in to the school gossip system/how popular you were". Speaking for myself, while Husband's affair...
by scrub
Mon May 06, 2019 5:07 pm
Forum: Historical Abuse and related discussions
Topic: Dates of birth of convicted abusers
Replies: 45
Views: 2590

Re: Dates of birth of convicted abusers

Am I right in thinking that a relationship with a pupil wasn’t illegal until 2003? I guess grooming a girl over the age of 16 until she consents to sex wouldn’t have been an offence prior to that date. Speaking in very general terms and about nobody in particular, of course. That is actually a very...
by scrub
Sun May 05, 2019 2:39 pm
Forum: Historical Abuse and related discussions
Topic: Poulton, Cairncross, Sillett
Replies: 58
Views: 3762

Re: Poulton, Cairncross, Sillett

Bob wrote:
Sun May 05, 2019 1:38 pm
I remember she had the demeanor of a corrupt prison officer from tv show Prisoner Cell Block H, and now we know just as much empathy too.
:lol: and I think I know exactly which one you mean!