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by Janey Jam-Jar
Fri Jul 05, 2019 9:03 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Here's a hypothetical
Replies: 163
Views: 2570983

Re: Here's a hypothetical

J.R. wrote: Fri Jul 05, 2019 6:19 pm Where IS Miss Marple when you really need her ??
She'd have all the answers plus a pair of knitted socks within the hour. In the meantime, never mind Holmes & Watson, Morse & Lewis (or Turner & Hooch), newest kids on the detection block are Otter & Jake 🔎
by Janey Jam-Jar
Thu Jul 04, 2019 11:21 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Here's a hypothetical
Replies: 163
Views: 2570983

Re: Here's a hypothetical

There's a "physics professor" McCall mentioned in this blog post: https://www.stickmanbangkok.com/readers-submissions/2013/02/thai-thoughts-and-anecdotes-part-367/. Content warning: website is about the joys of "whoremongering" in Bangkok and almost certainly contains "adul...
by Janey Jam-Jar
Sun Jun 23, 2019 6:26 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Bishop Peter Ball
Replies: 13
Views: 5796

Re: Bishop Peter Ball

Just heard on the radio that Peter Ball has died.
by Janey Jam-Jar
Thu Jun 13, 2019 3:23 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Dobbie sentencing hearing
Replies: 93
Views: 48413

Re: Dobbie sentencing hearing

https://www.birminghammail.co.uk/news/midlands-news/christs-hospital-school-chaplain-jailed-16420693 "...when he confided in a fellow teacher at the school he was told to "get over it and move on"." That part of the report really stood out for me too. And, like Gingerbeard17, I ...
by Janey Jam-Jar
Thu May 16, 2019 12:26 am
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: RIP James Herbertson
Replies: 6
Views: 8565

Re: RIP James Herbertson

He was on my year and I knew him a little, we spent an afternoon in Arundel during a holiday once. To have another from our cohort dying by suicide is just awful. I've been thinking of him every day since I heard the news of his death.
by Janey Jam-Jar
Sun May 05, 2019 3:26 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Dates of birth of convicted abusers
Replies: 45
Views: 15598

Re: Dates of birth of convicted abusers

I wonder if the school stipulated in its own rules anything about pupil/teacher relationships at any point from living memory onwards? And whether that changed when it became co-ed? Of course, whether it's law or not, a person's own ethical compass 'ought' to come into play. My husband teaches at un...
by Janey Jam-Jar
Sat May 04, 2019 11:52 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Dates of birth of convicted abusers
Replies: 45
Views: 15598

Re: Dates of birth of convicted abusers

So were Dobbie and Husband actually connected together as part of the case? I'm not trying to belittle the offences nor the damage done to the victims in any way. Being half a world away makes it difficult to understand what's fact and what's conjecture. Thanks, Max richardb has the legal know-how ...
by Janey Jam-Jar
Sat May 04, 2019 11:40 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Dates of birth of convicted abusers
Replies: 45
Views: 15598

Re: Dates of birth of convicted abusers

I hope they survive prison. I also hope that eventually they come to some sort of realisation of the trauma they have caused their victims, and the hurt they have caused the wider relationships around the victims, their own families and friends. That work is painful and difficult and time-consuming...
by Janey Jam-Jar
Sat May 04, 2019 10:05 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Dates of birth of convicted abusers
Replies: 45
Views: 15598

Re: Dates of birth of convicted abusers

I hope they survive prison. I also hope that eventually they come to some sort of realisation of the trauma they have caused their victims, and the hurt they have caused the wider relationships around the victims, their own families and friends. That work is painful and difficult and time-consuming ...
by Janey Jam-Jar
Sat May 04, 2019 9:39 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Trial of Gary William Dobbie
Replies: 328
Views: 118030

Re: Trial of Gary William Dobbie

How is a convicted offender determined to show genuine remorse? He pled not guilty and sought character witnesses for himself. In my mind not the actions of a person who acknowledges a transgression. And at what point does the question of remorse get looked at - at sentencing or at parole? At this ...
by Janey Jam-Jar
Sat May 04, 2019 9:05 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Trial of Gary William Dobbie
Replies: 328
Views: 118030

Re: Trial of Gary William Dobbie

And btw, thank you for all the useful information about the process, richardb 👍
by Janey Jam-Jar
Sat May 04, 2019 9:04 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Trial of Gary William Dobbie
Replies: 328
Views: 118030

Re: Trial of Gary William Dobbie

How is a convicted offender determined to show genuine remorse? He pled not guilty and sought character witnesses for himself. In my mind not the actions of a person who acknowledges a transgression.

And at what point does the question of remorse get looked at - at sentencing or at parole?
by Janey Jam-Jar
Sat May 04, 2019 8:43 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Trial of Gary William Dobbie
Replies: 328
Views: 118030

Re: Trial of Gary William Dobbie

Given the length of his offending, would that determine some element of dangerousness? This sounds massively assumptive on my part but he doesn't come across as an opportunist paedophile, so the long-term predatory nature of his actions must be an indication that it could happen again? Regarding the...
by Janey Jam-Jar
Sat May 04, 2019 1:55 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Trial of Gary William Dobbie
Replies: 328
Views: 118030

Re: Trial of Gary William Dobbie

Gunning was assistant housemaster in Mid A until about 87? Then Frank McKenna took over as assistant. Mike "Taffy" Williams was housemaster at least all the time I was in Mid A (85-89) and probably a year or so before that. Dr Chapman (from South Africa) took over, but not sure for how lo...
by Janey Jam-Jar
Sat May 04, 2019 10:50 am
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Independent Inquiry into Child Sexual Abuse - Peter Ball - publication date
Replies: 3
Views: 2085

Re: Independent Inquiry into Child Sexual Abuse - Peter Ball - publication date

I shall be very interested to read this. There are 27 pages on his schedule of convictions and allegations of misconduct against boys and young men.

And I wait to see the connections between him and CH.