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- Fri Aug 03, 2018 10:03 am
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Will Dobbie be defrocked?
- Replies: 35
- Views: 18539
Re: Will Dobbie be defrocked?
People don't always abide by the law of the land. The church is about forgiveness and once the sentence has been served is the slate clean? DBS checks should now show up his conviction but people can be manipulative and not accepting of reality.
- Thu Aug 02, 2018 11:25 pm
- Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
- Topic: Dr Ken Little
- Replies: 7
- Views: 2890
Dr Ken Little
After Rick Slater died in 1990, a man called Dr Ken Little was brought in to assist those who needed it, as the school psychologist. I tried to contact him last summer to pass on some family news. I tried an old email address, several months later a reply from an unnamed person to say he'd died. I r...
- Thu Aug 02, 2018 10:26 pm
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Will Dobbie be defrocked?
- Replies: 35
- Views: 18539
Re: Will Dobbie be defrocked?
https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/anglican-church-could-bring-back-the-power-to-defrock-priests-because-of-sexual-abuse-of-children-10384247.html This is from 2015. If I understand correctly the permission to officiate can be removed. The synod met recently but I've not seen any report...
- Wed Aug 01, 2018 9:55 pm
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Who Knew What?
- Replies: 221
- Views: 71571
- Thu Jul 26, 2018 3:10 pm
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Who Knew What?
- Replies: 221
- Views: 71571
Re: Who Knew What?
Didn't Baker oppose the merger which is why he was removed from post and Hansford drafted in to oversee the conjoining of the schools with the headmistress of Hertford?
- Tue Jul 17, 2018 10:03 pm
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: A WAY AHEAD?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 7821
Re: A WAY AHEAD?
peter2095 wrote: “The independent inquiry into child sexual abuse is expected to look at boarding schools later this year.” Does anyone know whether this has happened yet? Also a thought has just occurred to me. If CH doesn't want to participate in an inquiry, might there be other options? It can't...
- Tue Jul 17, 2018 3:08 pm
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: How far did the rot spread?
- Replies: 46
- Views: 13874
Re: How far did the rot spread?
Re: How far did the rot spread? by Janey Jam-Jar » Tue Jul 17, 2018 11:37 am Fair enough if you disagree. Don't tell me I'm naive and my opinion is ridiculous though. Sorry Janey Jam Jar. When my kids left enthusiastically each term for their happy and successful boarding school careers they didn’t...
- Tue Jul 17, 2018 3:00 pm
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: How far did the rot spread?
- Replies: 46
- Views: 13874
Re: How far did the rot spread?
Yamaha, my feelings are running fairly high at the moment. Being told my opinions are naive or ridiculous is how I was treated when I was younger and subsequently at a massively critical moment at school that ultimately went tits up. I don't appreciate it as an adult, but now I have the nerve to say...
- Tue Jul 17, 2018 12:37 pm
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: How far did the rot spread?
- Replies: 46
- Views: 13874
Re: How far did the rot spread?
Re: How far did the rot spread? Post by Janey Jam-Jar » Tue Jul 17, 2018 9:20 am Please read Nick Duffell on the subject of boarding ('The Making of Them' and 'Trauma, Abandonment & Privilege') and Joy Schaverien ('Boarding School Syndrome'). I thought there was something inherently wrong with ...
- Tue Jul 17, 2018 9:20 am
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: How far did the rot spread?
- Replies: 46
- Views: 13874
Re: How far did the rot spread?
Please read Nick Duffell on the subject of boarding ('The Making of Them' and 'Trauma, Abandonment & Privilege') and Joy Schaverien ('Boarding School Syndrome'). I thought there was something inherently wrong with me, that I never truly adjusted into what was expected of me. There wasn't anythin...
- Tue Jul 17, 2018 9:11 am
- Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
- Topic: House structure
- Replies: 56
- Views: 14978
Re: House structure
Girls houses were Leigh-Hunt A & B (changed from a boys house in 88 I think - Julian will know) Barnes A & B Coleridge A & B Only one side of L-H changed first I seem to remember. My mate departed Col A to furrow the new ground there. 1988 sounds about right. The other side was still a ...
- Tue Jul 17, 2018 9:05 am
- Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
- Topic: House structure
- Replies: 56
- Views: 14978
Re: House structure
At the merger (1985) the girls houses, as outlined by marty above, continued as they had done at Hertford, with 2nd form through to Grecians in one house. Junior dorm (2nd form - LE) downstairs, seniors (UF - Grecians) upstairs in cubies. LE might have been junior dorm monitors but otherwise Grecian...
- Tue Jul 17, 2018 8:57 am
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Date of sentencing of Webb and Burr
- Replies: 84
- Views: 32113
Re: Date of sentencing of Webb and Burr
“The independent inquiry into child sexual abuse is expected to look at boarding schools later this year.” Does anyone know whether this has happened yet? Also a thought has just occurred to me. If CH doesn't want to participate in an inquiry, there might be other options. It can't have functioned ...
- Sun Jul 15, 2018 11:42 pm
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: Today's the day
- Replies: 30
- Views: 9732
Re: Today's the day
I can't say that I was ever abused ... but it does leave me thinking that I was one of many who had a lucky escape. Someone messaged me the same thing, feeling lucky they came out of school not having been abused. It's a low standard. Ofsted fail. The very least my kids come out of (so-called 'bog-...
- Sun Jul 15, 2018 4:47 pm
- Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
- Topic: A WAY AHEAD?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 7821
Re: A WAY AHEAD?
When was this, sejintenej?sejintenej wrote: ↑Sun Jul 15, 2018 2:47 pm b) remember the last government enquiry when it was found (AFAIR) that the suicide was not the fault of overenthusiasticand violent use of punishments by CH masters.