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by Chris Grady
Wed Jun 04, 2025 11:38 am
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Lost Voices Heard / 30th May 2025
Replies: 3
Views: 3855

Re: Lost Voices Heard / 30th May 2025

Thank you for the video diary - powerfully personal and rightly completely respectful of others' privacy.
by Chris Grady
Sat May 31, 2025 11:45 am
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Lost Voices Heard / 30th May 2025
Replies: 3
Views: 3855

Lost Voices Heard / 30th May 2025

This is to acknowledge that yesterday, at CH Horsham, around 50 people gathered for Lost Voices Heard with a further 10 on zoom from around the world. Enormous privilege to be there and help to facilitate the day for an awesome, to quote Dr Nina Burrowes, assembly of Old Blues, parents, allies and ...
by Chris Grady
Tue Mar 18, 2025 9:37 am
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: A Victims/Survivor event
Replies: 17
Views: 15268

Re: A Victims/Survivor event

May I make a gentle reminder on this discussion trail as well as the Lost Voices posting. If anyone is planning to come to the Lost Voices Heard event on Fri 30th May then PLEASE could you complete the registration with me by 23rd April. This gives me time to get info out to you and check dietry ...
by Chris Grady
Tue Mar 18, 2025 9:33 am
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Lost Voices Heard / Event at CH 30th May 2025
Replies: 2
Views: 6926

Re: Lost Voices Heard / Event at CH 30th May 2025

May I make a gentle reminder. If anyone is planning to come to the Lost Voices Heard event on Fri 30th May then PLEASE could you complete the registration with me by 23rd April. This gives me time to get info out to you and check dietry/travel/access things. Thanks so much .

a) Here's the link to ...
by Chris Grady
Fri Jan 03, 2025 4:25 am
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Lost Voices Heard / Event at CH 30th May 2025
Replies: 2
Views: 6926

Re: Lost Voices Heard / Event at CH 30th May 2025

May I use this Reply as a reminder...

Firstly may I wish you all the healthiest 2025 possible with plenty of friendship.

As you will know I am working with colleagues towards the Lost Voices Heard event at CH on Fri 30th May. There are four main aims with the day:
* to offer an acknowledgment of ...
by Chris Grady
Fri Jan 03, 2025 4:20 am
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: "Historical abuse" and "re-traumatising victims" - gas-lighting?
Replies: 3
Views: 4396

Re: "Historical abuse" and "re-traumatising victims" - gas-lighting?

Thank you for the very helpful reflections on terminology. The trauma/pain continues - some find perspective and maybe even closure, but for most as far as I can see it is abuse which lives in the present, although it may have been first perpetrated in the past. I hope what Rob, Lia & Hilary as ...
by Chris Grady
Sun Nov 24, 2024 7:08 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Those released under licence
Replies: 10
Views: 6838

Re: Those released under licence

Rob Totterdell has asked me to post the following on his behalf:

"Nell, Please be reassured I am investigating the whereabouts of Dobbie and notifying the Catholic Church"

Rob is currently in hospital recovering from a stroke, learning to walk again a bit but with full marbles intact. He is meant ...
by Chris Grady
Sat Nov 23, 2024 4:12 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Lost Voices Heard / Event at CH 30th May 2025
Replies: 2
Views: 6926

Lost Voices Heard / Event at CH 30th May 2025

We, as Old Blues, would like to invite you to join us in person (or partly on Zoom) on Friday 30 May 2025, 10.30am to 4.30pm, at Christ’s Hospital for an event we are carefully developing. Over the last three years – as the culmination of seven years of liaison between CH and Old Blues and a ...
by Chris Grady
Sun Nov 10, 2024 10:34 am
Forum: Looking for....
Topic: Edgar Newman (born Christopher E Newman 1958)
Replies: 0
Views: 13100

Edgar Newman (born Christopher E Newman 1958)

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I am trying to track any family of Edgar who may still be alive. He was MaA and then LaA 69-76. Went on to train with London Contemporary Dance School after playing Cain and being part of so many productions.

He died in London in 1993. His family home (Mother Doreen nee Hinchliffe, Father Peter ...
by Chris Grady
Wed Oct 23, 2024 3:49 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Statement of Acknowledgement from CH
Replies: 16
Views: 60353

Re: Statement of Acknowledgement from CH


Too little too late and how do you ask for support???


Chris, I'm not sure whether you have had a direct answer to this but Julie Wilson at BSB, the independent charity offering support and guidance/signposting to support is the person to go to. https://bluessupportingblues.com/ is the website ...
by Chris Grady
Sun Oct 06, 2024 11:56 am
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: A comment from a Sexual Abuse Victim from CH
Replies: 19
Views: 17938

Re: A comment from a Sexual Abuse Victim from CH

Rob - I have also sent him a message on another platform. Hopefully this request will reach Mr Cowley. In case you see it here my email is chris@chrisgrady.org and I am seeking to support Rob on this ongoing work.
by Chris Grady
Sun Jul 21, 2024 11:23 am
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: A Victims/Survivor event
Replies: 17
Views: 15268

Re: A Victims/Survivor event

The School is not considering a time-line or time-out. Us small group of allies and survivors are working to put in place longterm available support services as needed. We are aware that a victim may take many years/decades to decide it is right for them to seek help. The Support Service will be ...
by Chris Grady
Sat Jul 20, 2024 3:34 pm
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: CH Drama and Arts Centre 50th(ish) celebrations
Replies: 0
Views: 8093

CH Drama and Arts Centre 50th(ish) celebrations

On Fri 6th Dec many of us are gathering to celebrate the creation of the theatre and the drama department. If you haven't heard about it yet and are interested in being there please complete the google form link here https://forms.gle/BFo5vo6X926b9mjK7
I will then give you more details and a ...
by Chris Grady
Tue May 21, 2024 12:06 pm
Forum: Stories, Reminiscing & Teacher/Pupil Memories
Topic: 50th (ish) anniversary of Theatre/DNP
Replies: 0
Views: 9101

50th (ish) anniversary of Theatre/DNP

On Fri Dec 6th a heap of us will join Duncan Noel Paton and guests at the Theatre to celebrate 50 years (and a little bit) since the start of the drama dept. We will watch the Senior School Play (whatever title it may be) and explore some memories and archives. If you were involved with Indians ...
by Chris Grady
Sat Sep 30, 2023 1:30 pm
Forum: Looking for....
Topic: Looking for those in School Plays 1973 to 1976
Replies: 1
Views: 16709

Looking for those in School Plays 1973 to 1976

I've been wanting to celebrate the 50th anniversary of the founding of the Drama Department in Sept 1972 and our time making plays/epics in Big School/Theatre with Duncan Noel-Paton. Although we are a year or so late, I want to see whether we can get a gathering together in March 2024 before we are ...