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by SandysJ
Sun Aug 31, 2025 12:01 pm
Forum: General Chat - Non CH
Topic: Immigrants
Replies: 3
Views: 2288

Re: Immigrants

Probably, the subject has never produced a squeak on this forum, because nobody else has considered it relevant to this particular forum.
by SandysJ
Sat May 03, 2025 7:22 pm
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: Youtube short on Bluecoat School monuments in the City
Replies: 8
Views: 4716

Re: Youtube short on Bluecoat School monuments in the City

Think we missed out on the darning mushroom and needles at Horsham!
by SandysJ
Fri May 02, 2025 10:37 am
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: Youtube short on Bluecoat School monuments in the City
Replies: 8
Views: 4716

Re: Youtube short on Bluecoat School monuments in the City

Does the school still operate the "Wardrobe".
I remember my 1st day as a squit, being escorted by my nurse maid, to the Wardrobe, where we were issued with our uniform, which was basically everything you wore, including underwear.
The staff looked at you, gave you what they thought would fit and ...
by SandysJ
Sat Mar 22, 2025 3:01 pm
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: Death of John Robson
Replies: 2
Views: 3498

Re: Death of John Robson

Fond memories of Rev' Rob'.
He showed me a good deal of understanding and compassion through an angst time.
I remember his 2 door Lancia Fulvia, as I washed it a few times and it seemed very racy for a chaplain!
by SandysJ
Wed Dec 18, 2024 12:03 am
Forum: FIRST TIME VISITORS & Feedback
Topic: Useless Photos on CHOBA Website
Replies: 1
Views: 9321

Re: Useless Photos on CHOBA Website

I thought exactly the same.
I feel it is as bad as a display can be because even the individual photos are not links to find out who they are!
Never mind the photos, just a list of new members names with houses and years would be so useful.
Mind, I would prefer to know who the contributors on this ...
by SandysJ
Thu Nov 28, 2024 1:41 am
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: David Newsome
Replies: 18
Views: 29796

Re: David Newsome

Robertson D, you start by stating:
'Wellington gave up caning in the early 70s, around the time Newsome left to work at CH, so Newsome would have known that a similar school could phase it out. He chose not to'
Yet the long obituary, that you include, says he left Wellington in 1959, to return to ...
by SandysJ
Mon Nov 25, 2024 1:31 am
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Those released under licence
Replies: 10
Views: 6859

Re: Those released under licence

Forgive me if you don't consider this tale relevant.
7 or 8 years ago I was driving along a main road, behind a bus.
It stopped to let an elderly gent off.
As the traffic started moving, I saw him stumble into a driveway but I was in a flow of traffic so had to turn around to go back to see if he ...
by SandysJ
Sat Jul 27, 2024 8:01 am
Forum: General Chat - Non CH
Topic: Normal things
Replies: 8
Views: 8593

Re: Normal things

Well that says it all....I think?
by SandysJ
Sat Jun 15, 2024 12:30 am
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: Stockholm Syndrome among Old Blues
Replies: 14
Views: 14083

Re: Stockholm Syndrome among Old Blues

I didn't actually say we gave our consent at 11 years old.
I said I visited CH and was eager to become a pupil.
I didn't give a verbal or written actual consent but I did pass an entrance exam.
Bearing in mind it was 54 years ago (for me), I was a child and all children had decisions made for them ...
by SandysJ
Fri Jun 14, 2024 8:18 am
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: Stockholm Syndrome among Old Blues
Replies: 14
Views: 14083

Re: Stockholm Syndrome among Old Blues

So an 11 year old who hasn't given consent to a specific journey, trip away, visit etc and taken anywhere by their parents is 'kidnap'?
So many things, in everybody's lives, could be re-interpretated as victimisation.
Donald Trump is alive and well!

Hey, but most of us Old Blues did visit CH before ...
by SandysJ
Fri Jun 07, 2024 1:43 am
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: Stockholm Syndrome among Old Blues
Replies: 14
Views: 14083

Re: Stockholm Syndrome among Old Blues

Sexual Abuse and Bullying are so wrong in any environment or establishment, but to liken boarding schools to a kidnap victim's relationship, with their captor(s), is right off the mark, offensive and too broad a damning judgement.
I have every sympathy with all the victims and the fact that CH has ...
by SandysJ
Wed Jun 05, 2024 5:21 am
Forum: General Chat - Non CH
Topic: Normal things
Replies: 8
Views: 8593

Re: Normal things

Never been in a Nando's.
Also have never been in IKEA!
So I suppose those aren't 'normal things' as doing them once would be extraordinary to me!
by SandysJ
Sat Oct 28, 2023 7:00 pm
Forum: Looking for....
Topic: Looking for those in School Plays 1973 to 1976
Replies: 1
Views: 16711

Re: Looking for those in School Plays 1973 to 1976

Chris Grady's recent open invitation has set me reminiscing about Drama at CH, when I was there in the early 70s.
CH was leaping ahead of other schools in terms of Drama with the setting up of a Drama Department and the appointment of Duncun Noel-Paton.
And then the wild ambition to build a Theatre ...
by SandysJ
Thu Oct 12, 2023 11:40 pm
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: Death of Ben Sweeny alias Spoonbill
Replies: 8
Views: 29558

Re: Death of Ben Sweeny alias Spoonbill

Heck Rex,
So sorry for your loss.
I had spent ages trying to work out who Spoonbill was but never got to to Ben.
Regards
John
by SandysJ
Wed Oct 04, 2023 5:18 am
Forum: Stories, Reminiscing & Teacher/Pupil Memories
Topic: Ken Grimshaw
Replies: 57
Views: 171878

Re: Ken Grimshaw

Bringing it back to Ken Grimshaw, I remember him teaching me Techical Drawing for O Level and always appreciated his patience, although I expect I tried it near to his limit!
I have used my drawing 'skills' (not so hot) a number of times through my working life especially when I was running my own ...