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by TMF
Tue Jul 02, 2019 3:32 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Here's a hypothetical
Replies: 163
Views: 2570061

Re: Here's a hypothetical

Golfer might know about location - there is a hint here:
https://www.chforum.info/php/viewtopic. ... 5&#p143335
by TMF
Wed Jun 19, 2019 5:08 am
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Here's a hypothetical
Replies: 163
Views: 2570061

Re: Here's a hypothetical

harryh wrote: Mon Jun 17, 2019 7:22 pm Thank you for your "clear as mud" explanation..... and I am not being facetious.
Tar for your brush as it were.
You are welcome.
by TMF
Mon Jun 17, 2019 5:43 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Here's a hypothetical
Replies: 163
Views: 2570061

Re: Here's a hypothetical

harryh wrote: Sun Jun 16, 2019 9:56 pm
TMF wrote: Sun Jun 16, 2019 3:28 pm McCall accused pupils of cynicism.
And your point is?
Accurate observation is called cynicism by those who do not accurately observe and instead prefer to obfuscate (like McCall).
by TMF
Sun Jun 16, 2019 3:28 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Here's a hypothetical
Replies: 163
Views: 2570061

Re: Here's a hypothetical

McCall accused pupils of cynicism.
by TMF
Sun Jun 16, 2019 3:22 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Sheila and Peter Higgins - character references for Gary Dobbie
Replies: 58
Views: 25985

Re: Sheila and Peter Higgins - character references for Gary Dobbie

People provide cover for abuse. Scazza provided a summary of examples here:

https://www.chforum.info/php/viewtopic. ... 15#p143288

If the "sudden departures" continue - the abuse continues.

If the abuse continues - the temptation to provide cover continues.
by TMF
Sat Jun 15, 2019 10:43 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Here's a hypothetical
Replies: 163
Views: 2570061

Re: Here's a hypothetical

The school and its staff were aware of problems for decades. See, for example: https://www.chforum.info/php/viewtopic.php?f=65&t=5219&p=142644#p142644 ...much of this site is devoted to analyzing who knew what and when about abuse and bullying (and there is much to read). Refunding fees make...
by TMF
Fri Nov 02, 2018 12:54 am
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: Resignation of Baker and emergency appointment of Hansford
Replies: 82
Views: 33494

Re: Resignation of Baker and emergency appointment of Hansford

I have got a strong feeling that your apology might be the route to compensation for [many] others.
No apologies - they might cost you. CH is teaching the wily politicians and bureaucrats of the future. (And never learn from any historical facts - that might cost you too).
by TMF
Fri Oct 12, 2018 7:12 pm
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: Corporal Punishment by CH Teaching staff
Replies: 104
Views: 40665

Re: Corporal Punishment by CH Teaching staff

1. If you made a video of a prepubescent boy in thin pajamas being bent over in a middle aged teacher's study and beaten with a slipper or a cane (with a run up, 'tangents', etc.) and put that video on YouTube or Facebook - you would find yourself quickly in trouble. 2. If you took some Polaroid pho...
by TMF
Fri Oct 12, 2018 6:27 pm
Forum: General Chat - CH Stuff
Topic: Hammer blows to CH finances
Replies: 39
Views: 11962

Re: Hammer blows to CH finances

1. Are pensions paid to ex-employees convicted of child abuse and rape? 2. Are pensions paid to ex-employees who turned a blind eye to child abuse? 3. Christ's Hospital has 405 million pounds in assets and received a >12% annual return on those assets in 2017. https://www.christs-hospital.org.uk/inf...
by TMF
Sun Sep 16, 2018 3:49 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: All this is incredibly sad
Replies: 163
Views: 72279

Re: All this is incredibly sad

An ongoing discomfort with the concept of 'facts' is evident...

All this is incredibly sad, indeed.
by TMF
Sun Sep 16, 2018 2:37 am
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: All this is incredibly sad
Replies: 163
Views: 72279

Re: All this is incredibly sad

...fact means different things to different people
...so 'facts' are person specific now...(!)
Actually facts are facts. Uncomfortable perhaps - but they are facts.
by TMF
Fri Sep 14, 2018 3:17 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: All this is incredibly sad
Replies: 163
Views: 72279

Re: All this is incredibly sad

That the children of staff did not have the same experience as other children is a fact and not speculation. (The speculation was on the chances of being sexually abused being zero for such children, I know of no public information to contradict that speculation. But it may have happened). Abetting ...
by TMF
Fri Sep 14, 2018 3:16 am
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: All this is incredibly sad
Replies: 163
Views: 72279

Re: All this is incredibly sad

When I was a pupil, masters' children inhabited a gilded cage. They could go home when they wanted. They often did not stay in the dorms. Corporal punishment was likely reduced - because at some point parent and teacher might have to discuss the topic. They were not bullied - because the chances of ...
by TMF
Thu Sep 13, 2018 8:21 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: All this is incredibly sad
Replies: 163
Views: 72279

Re: All this is incredibly sad

Golfer wrote: Thu Sep 13, 2018 7:42 pm But I didn't know. So the majority of staff probably didn't know. How CH.
Just another routine sudden departure...
by TMF
Thu Sep 13, 2018 2:44 pm
Forum: Abuse cases and related discussions
Topic: Why a teacher DOES NOT have to report abuse
Replies: 46
Views: 18391

Re: Why a teacher DOES NOT have to report abuse

Webb's responsibilities were changed during Newsome's time immediately after the chanting incident in the dining hall in the late 1970s. It is unlikely that Newsome was not aware of this sequence of events.