But we'll have to find the money if ds2 gets a place (kinda crossing my fingers that he won't get a place


But we haven't paid a registration fee. Only a couple of weeks till we find out!
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ailurophile wrote:I may have got this wrong, but aren't you both (Pinkhebe and Eowyn) waiting to hear whether your children are offered a place for entry this year? So you've applied, paid the registration fee, and your children have gone through two stages of assessment... all without CH having provided you with sufficient information to calculate whether you'll actually be able to afford a place if it's offered?
This is unfair (particularly to the children), and unacceptable.
That's a sad and rather counter-intuitive coda, Pinkhebe! But I understand exactly how you feel: once we had both our sons at CH the assessed contribution became increasingly unaffordable year on year. We tried to discuss this with the school, but were simply told that if we couldn’t afford the fees we would have to remove our child/ren, which we were eventually and very reluctantly forced to do. Things got a little easier once DS1 moved back into the state system for his sixth form; but although this actually worked out well for him we still feel rather guilty that we were then able to offer his brother a choice over whether to stay on at the same stage. It’s so difficult as a parent – you really want to do the best for your children, and offer them the same opportunities, but the CH assessment seems designed to make this virtually impossible if you’re what the current government likes to call a ‘hard working family’ (aka the squeezed middle!).No idea if we can afford it (TBH we can't afford the fees for our first son - we can only pay them thanks to a flexible mortgage)
But we'll have to find the money if ds2 gets a place (kinda crossing my fingers that he won't get a place )
J.R. wrote:Has the School ever issued a statement on their policy regarding siblings entrance ?
In the 'good-old days', siblings seemed to have no trouble at all on gaining entry.
Is this 'money' thing rearing its head yet again ??
Yes, I do know of one......Does anyone know of any sibling that got in? As far as I can make out no one who posted here did, nor did the others I know of from school.